Duathletes! We Set The New Year Off Right!

 

We ran, we biked, we prayed, we ran some more, we cursed whoever thought of signing us all up for this ;), but in the end we all felt like WARRIORS!

Today, Saturday January 3rd, 12 of my boot camp ladies and myself became duathletes!

Whew! It was crazy tough and awesome!

Although we had been practicing together over our long holiday break, race day threw a few curves at us that we didn’t expect. Like the fact that the run was a trail run, not the flat paved roads we’d been practicing on.

We single tracked it 2 miles with 300 other people through sand, dirt, puddles, horse patties (gross) and hills that felt like mountains!

The 7 mile bike ride was next and although it was on a paved course, it had WAY more ups and downs than we anticipated. We all needed a crash course in gear shifting for that roller coaster ride. Ultimately some of the boot campers decided it would be faster to run their bike up the hills than to ride (next time we’ll practice that gear thing a little more).

The conclusion was another go round on that 2 mile trail run, only this time we all had to do it with a pair of legs that felt like rubber (this is where the cursing whoever talked us into this came in). There was no stopping now however and we all huffed and puffed and fell through across the finish line.

Mission accomplished!

All of the boot campers are at various stages of fitness. One of the participants had only been a member of boot camp for two weeks. Another camper has been in camp since March of ’08 and everyone else fell
somewhere in between.

Most of us beat the personal finish times we set for ourselves. But all of us felt like we had now raised the bar on what our bodies can do.

It’s funny, somewhere right in the middle of the whole thing you ask yourself why you ever decided to do this. But by the end your asking the organizers when the next one is! We all plan on returning in April to tackle the challenge again and hopefully knock some minutes off our time.

If you live in Elk grove or Livermore we’d love to have you on team Booty Boot Camp.

I’ll be your biggest cheer leader!

Stay focused

Sarai D. Jones

The New Year’s Resolution Trap

 

New Year’s day…it never fails to evoke feelings of hope and renewal, but is it really a trap?

You’ve been handed a proverbial clean slate – another chance to shrug off your bad habits and reach for your dreams.

In an attempt to bottle that New Year’s vigor, you’ll make a few New Year’s Resolutions. But before you put pen to paper, you ought to know this:

It has been reported that 92 % of all New Year’s Resolutions end in failure.

That means that less than 1 out of every 10 people will successfully accomplish their resolutions in 2009.

Ouch – those statistics are brutal. Who in their right mind would take the time to make resolutions when failure is that imminent?

As your trusted source for fitness advice, I’d like to coach you though this sticky situation. Yes, most people fail to achieve their New Year’s Resolutions. However, I am going to clue you in on what the 92% do wrong and teach you what the 8% who succeed do right.

First up, the 92% who failed. These well meaning folks shared a common mistake that put the nail in their coffin before they’d even begun.

They bit off more than they could chew.

In all the excitement of becoming a better person and changing their life in the New Year they made the crucial mistake of committing to do too much. But reality set in, a few weeks or even days into their reformed life, and they gave up.

The 92% gave themselves an easy way out. They approached their resolution with an ‘all or nothing’ attitude. Once the ‘all’ became too tough they opted for ‘nothing’. And just like that another resolution ended in failure – end of story.

Now let’s examine the 8% who succeed with their resolutions year after year. The key to their success is quite simple (you may have even guessed it by now).

They set realistic goals.

I’ll repeat that… they set REALISTIC goals.

  • Instead of resolving to lose 50 pounds by June, they commit to exercise 3-4 times each week.
  • Instead of resolving to give up all carbs, they commit to bring healthy snacks to work instead eating from the vending machine.
  • Instead of resolving to drop 3 sizes in 3 months, they commit to losing 1 pound each week until they reach their desired size.
  • Instead of resolving to never eat out again, they commit to eating healthy all week and rewarding themselves with one meal out on the weekends.

Did you see the difference?

If you want your resolution to stick then think of something simple and realistic. Sure, it certainly won’t sound as cool as the resolutions that the 92% make – but they aren’t going to keep theirs anyway.

Remember that the whole point of making a New Year’s Resolution is to become a healthier, happier and more successful person. Small changes done consistently will make a big difference.

If your New Year’s Resolution has to do with losing weight and getting into great shape (and whose isn’t?) then guarantee your success by working with a fitness expert who can show you the ropes and guide you to success.

I’d love to team up with you – together we will transform your body in 2009!

Call or email to get started today. Booty Boot Camp begins January 5th!

Sugar, Sugar, Sugar….. Stop Already!

 

Ok, so I know that that is way easier said than done.

I personally have dealt with a seriously over active sweet tooth most of my life. So much in fact that I weighed nearly 200lbs not too long ago.

So while you really do need to limit added sugar to a small percentage of your daily caloric intake, I know that for most of us women, eliminating it 100% is not happening.

What worked for me and has worked for many of my boot camp clients is to retrain your sweet tooth. I have some ideas for you, read on………..

  • Eat regularly – When you allow yourself to get so hungry that everything looks like the best -pizza, sandwich, donut – you’ve ever seen, there’s no way you are not going to be able to resist that candy bar or cookie that is right in front of you when you’re starving! Also by eating at regular intervals you will keep your blood sugar in check and also help reduce the chance of binge eating.
  • Limit sweets to after your meal -I know to most of you this is a duh thing, but I grew up in a house where dessert was served with dinner! (sorry to rat you out mama) so I thought this was normal. I am happy to say my family has since changed their ways. The point is however, if your tummy is already filled up with good solid food the chances that you will over indulge in sweets is greatly reduced.
  • Curb your cravings with a mini portion – When you just gotta have that treat, try a reduced size of what you want. Instead of a Hershey bar, have a Hershey kiss. It will most likely knock the edge off of the craving allowing you to get control over it without doing damage to your healthy habits. You can also try sharing your dessert with your dinner companions.
  • Un-train your internal sugar alarm clock – If everyday at 3:30pm you grab a cookie what are the chances that your body will begin to "need" that cookie at 3:30pm everyday. In doubt? How long do you go before you remember you need to drink your coffee or tea each morning. Sugar is addictive. If you train your body to expect it at the same time everyday, guess what? It will. Instead of giving in to your sugar craving see what might really be going on. Are you hungry? Are you stressed? Bored? Identify the real reason for your craving and distract yourself with something else. You’ll probably forget about it in less than 20 minutes.
  • Don’t eliminate sweets all together – Some of you may know my motto is "all or nothing gets you nothing" well in this case it’s the opposite. All or nothing will probably have you shoving every piece of chocolate and sugar filled goody in your mouth before weeks end! Yes, restraining too much can lead to binging. Enjoy your treats in moderation.

One of my favorites is the chocolate/peanut butter craver from Prograde. It’s all natural and organic with under 200 calories so I don’t feel guilty when I have one.

This is a battle, I know it firsthand. Don’t beat yourself up for not getting it perfect right off the bat, or ever. Keep working on it. I’ll be here to support you.

Stay focused

Sarai D. Jones

No Weight Loss Resolutions For Her!

 

Booty Boot Camp and one of my star clients, Monica are mentioned in the January issue of Sacramento magazine.

I am so proud of Monica and the true lifestyle change she has made.

Check it out…………

Elk grove boot camp

Four locals weigh in on how they successfully shed the pounds.

It’s January—and you know what that means. It’s resolution time.

Actually, make that revolution time.

For anyone who’s decided this is the year they’re going to lose weight and
get into shape—and we know you’re out there—this one’s for you. It’s a story
about four locals who’ve not only lost weight but kept it off, and done so
without magic pills or gimmicky fads. They’ve gone back to the basics: sensible
eating and regular exercise.

No Fat Flush, South Beach or Grapefruit diets for these folks. They’ve
learned that the only kind of plan that works is one they can follow for
life.

Monica Jones

Then: 165
Now: 145

When your sister-in-law is a fitness trainer who runs “booty boot camps,” you
probably can expect a friendly kick in the you-know-what every so
often.
That’s exactly what Monica Jones got from her sister-in-law, Sarai
Jones, fearless leader of said boot camps through Fit Bodies 2 Go in Elk Grove.
After Monica gave birth to her second child in the summer of 2007, she was
lugging around an extra 20 or 25 pounds that needed the boot.

The goal: to drop the weight by November, when her maternity leave would end.
“I wanted to go back to work with a new body,” says Jones, whose postpartum
poundage peaked at 165. She was aiming for 140—just a shade under her normal
145. (She’s 5-foot-5.)

So that August, with her sister-in-law at the ready, Jones’ battle with the
bulge began.

First order of business: a new way of eating. “Sarai gave me The
Eat-Clean Diet
book and asked me to read it before we started working out,”
says Jones, who lives in Sacramento. “She wanted me to get my mind-set in
place.” The book’s plan called for six small, balanced meals a day, each
hovering around the 300-calorie mark. Fish, veggies and whole grains became
staples; out went the cookies and the chips.

For the 29-year-old Jones, who always had “eaten pretty much everything I
wanted,” changing her eating habits was the greatest challenge of all—even
harder, she says, than working out.

But that, too, was difficult. Jones says she couldn’t even run around the
block before her sister-in-law kick-started her into action.

“I was a little intimidated,” she admits. But when Sarai showed up at her
house three days a week, it was fight or flight.

She fought.

Light workouts were soon replaced by vigorous ones. She walked. She ran. She
rode bikes. She did jumping jacks. She jumped rope. She weight-trained with
dumbbells. Sarai was “a great coach,” Jones says. “It helps to have that
accountability factor—to know someone is going to come and work out with
you.”

It also helped Jones to visualize herself waltzing back into work and having
her office mates go “wow.”

Did she make it? You bet she did.

“I got rid of a lot of clothes, went out shopping for some new ones and just
felt so much better about myself,” says Jones.

Since then, she’s gained back about 5 pounds. But she’s kept off 20 and is
happy with the way she looks.

Jones still struggles with the eating thing. “Sweets are my enemy,” she
confesses; chocolate is a particular weakness.

But she continues to work out three times a week, and you can probably guess
where. Yep. She goes to booty camp.

************************************************ To see the full Sacramento Bee article click here

If you are in Livermore or Elk Grove and would like to receive the same motivation, support and one of a kind workout that got Monica looking and feeling better than she ever has come check us out. Booty Boot Camp

Stay Focused

Sarai D. Jones

10 Last Minute Fitness Gifts for 2008

 

It’s down to the wire, if you are still at the mall wandering around looking for a few last minute gifts, let me help you out with a few things I think any fitness minded person would be happy to receive or maybe even pick one or two of these up for yourself. After all, who doesn’t want to look or perform better? Here is official my top 10 list of the best last minute fitness gifts
for 2008:

1.) Polar Heart Rate Monitor

Price: $110 and up

These little gadgets are useful for so many things. Of course it monitors your hear rate, but many models also calculate calories burned during a workout and the time it takes you to recover. They are also a stop watch, lap counter and count down clock. One of the ways I love to use mine is by starting the week off at zero calories, I then let my calories accumulate from each workout and I make the goal of hitting 3500 calories by the end of the week (the amount needed to shed 1lb of body weight). When I’m on the treadmill and think I can’t run another mile or do another interval I focus on my big goal and push through it. Polar is probably the most popular, high-end brand but there are a lot of good ones out there in every price range. However if only the best will do –polar just released their first heart rate monitor with GPS capability.

2.) Resistance Bands

Price: $10-30 (higher quality one will last longer)

Don’t be fooled by their looks, resistance bands are by far the most simple, convenient, and affordable equipment option in the fitness industry. Not only are they the perfect compliment to your body weight circuit training workouts, but they also allow for multiple levels of resistance to keep you progressing. They supply total portability for killer workouts that can be done
anywhere. You can find bands at most sporting goods stores and also at some major discount stores like Ross and Tj Maxx.

3.) New Workout Clothes

Price: $25 on up

There is nothing like new clothes to get you motivated to move. However, often times women want to hold off on spending money on themselves until they lose weight (It doesn’t make sense, but it’s how we are sometimes). So why not treat the women in your life to a few nice looking exercise outfits to get them started. Now I have far too many exercise tops and pants, (far, far too many) but when I do need to add to my collection, I love the quality and fit of www.otomix.com .

4.) A Foam Roller

Price: $24.95

Foam rollers are a growing fitness trend, but they are here to stay. If you’re like most people, you spend a lot of your day nailed to a desk. And when you actually do have time to workout, all you usually can fit in is the workout itself. Really, who has time for daily stretching?

Well that’s where a foam roller comes in. It’s ideal to use for at least five minutes post-workout to promote healing of the small micro-tears in your muscles that result from high-intensity training to jumpstart the recovery process. Plus, a foam roller both kneads out and lengthens your muscle and connective tissues thus alleviating, if not eliminating, nagging aches and pains in your back, knees, hips, shoulders, and elbows.

If you’re going to get a foam roller, get a good one. The cheaper options tend to wear down into a limp noodle for larger individuals after a couple of months. Check out the Perform Better brand for a high quality option.

5.) A Gift Card to Whole Foods, Trader Joes, or Other Premium Grocery Stores

Price: $ 5 on up

Instead of gift card to a fancy restaurant where the receiver is more than likely to over indulge in some fancy, fatty foods, why not give a week’s worth of groceries to a more health conscious grocer like Trader Joes. Of course, not everything in these stores are what I would consider “clean eating” but just being in there surrounded by mostly fresh, organic food definitely
puts eating healthier at the front on my mind.

If my Booty Boot Camp girls here me talk about Trader Joe’s low-fat plain Greek yogurt one more time I think they are going to shove a container of it down my throat! (gotta check that stuff out by the way, so yummy).

A few years ago I rarely stepped inside of a Trader Joe’s market because I assumed it was all over priced. But man was I wrong! In fact items like super lean ground beef and organic Salmon are actually a lot cheaper than at the mass chain super markets. I used to do about 15% of my shopping at Trader Joes and the rest at the mass super markets but now that has been totally flipped. The key is to go in with a budget in mind (e.g. spend $50 bucks on protein, $20 on fruits and veggies, and $10 on miscellaneous items) only buying what you need.

6.) Go Wallet by Shoewallet

Price: about $10

When I run I need to have my keys on me and I’d also like to have my i.d on me in case of an emergency, but lugging a purse on a run is not an option. The answer? A shoe wallet! Large enough to hold your keys, ID, and even a little cash (in case of emergency), it’s a must-have for outdoor exercisers and people who enjoy an active lifestyle. They come in a variety of styles, colors and sizes. Look for them online or at your local sporting goods store.

 

7.) Supplements that Work: Protein Powders, Fish Oil, Multi-Vitamin

Open any fitness magazine and you are bound to be bombarded with ads for one “clinically tested” miracle pill after another. Well I’m here to tell you that I have helped hundreds of people lose thousands of pounds of fat, and In my journey, I have found only three supplements to be a mandatory part of the optimal fat loss program: protein powders, fish oil, and multi-vitamin supplements.

Protein powders provide great liquid workout nutrition and a convenient meat alternative for on-the-go snacking. I like Prograde “lean”. It’s more than just a protein powder, it’s a total meal replacement so you can just shake and
go with a healthy alternative to fast food or the office bagels. See it at ProGrade Nutrition

Fish oil, or more appropriately entitled an essential fatty acid (EFA) supplement, is critical to providing key omega 3’s to maximize overall health, performance, and body composition. Studies show that krill oil provides the
most effective dosing of EFA’s.

A multi-vitamin provides keys vitamins and minerals that are tough to obtain unless your diet is near picture perfect. I don’t know about you, but I like to cover my bases when it comes to my health. Be sure to choose a multi-vitamin supplement that is made from whole foods rather than synthetic materials, in addition to being made specifically for your gender.

My clients and I are totally digging Prograde VGF+25 and EFA Icon, both included in Prograde’s Health+ Package available at Prograde nutrition

 

8.) Sport-Specific Gift

 

This one’s pretty basic: if you want to give a great gift to an athlete then get them something unique that compliments their sport, whether it be fitness equipment, apparel, or both.

9.) Fitness Book or Subscription to Fitness Magazine

My recommendation is: Mindless Eating, by Brian Wasnik

Price: $12.95

The name says it all. We have all been in a social situation and found ourselves on “autopilot” munching away with no thought to what or how many calories we are putting in our bodies. This book looks at how social settings and other
“external” factors trigger mindless overeating, and how you can manage these cues.

 

10.) A Gift Card to a Fitness Boot Camp

Boot camps provide a fun and exciting team environment that guarantee better results than one-on-one personal training for only a third of the cost… what could be better than that?

Look for a local fitness boot camp with tons of social proof (client testimonials, especially in the form of pictures and video) to make sure they have a solid reputation and a bunch of raving fans of people just like you. Plus, any good boot campworth its weight offers free trials and money-back guarantees to all newcomers because they are so confident their program works that you’ll more than likely continue after a test-drive, this way there is typically no risk on your part.

So join a fitness boot camp with at least one other friend or family member or buy a boot camp gift card to give to your loved ones. As a boot camp instructor myself, I know first hand that clients always get better results when they embark on a fitness journey with others.

And if you live in the local Elk Grove or Livermore, ca., come work with us for the best personal training in both Elk Grove and Livermore by visiting www.FitBootyCamps.com We’ll change your life and have you looking better than ever this New Year, guaranteed!

Stay focused on your goals and I’ll see you in the new year!

Sarai D. Jones

Booty Boot Camp

13 HOLIDAY (or any time) DIET TIPS

 

So the title of this post and a few others is Holiday this and holiday that. I do this because that’s what’s on most peoples minds right now. But the truth is, at any give time we all are faced with a situation where we can be tempted to overeat. Whether it be the holidays, a baby shower, even just a good old family get together, we are all tempted to eat more than we should at some point in dare I say each and every month? So take this advice and yes, apply it to the upcoming holidays but remember it all year and you will truly be on your way to a lifestyle change……..

There are so many handy damage control diet strategies that you should employ to best
prevent yourself from overdoing it at the dinner table this holiday season.
Use the following 13 diet tips below to allow yourself to indulge in moderation and
actually enjoy yourself in social settings all without going up a pants size before
the New Year:

1.) Perform High-Intensity Activity Before and/or After a Big Meal or Holiday Feast

I know, I know. I promised diet strategies, but I run a boot camp, fitness is what I do. I can’t go without recommending some activity. wanna help minimize the amount of stuffing that ends up stuffing you? Get moving! Your body is most receptive to higher calorie and/or carbohydrate meals within 30 minutes before and within three hours following high-intensity activity.
In a perfect world you would workout both before AND after a big meal, but if you can only do one, that will suffice. Remember we are letting go of the "all or nothing" mentality (see blog post below). It is less important when you do it and more important that you do it. Your best options will be 20 minutes of circuit resistance training or cardio interval training. Even a 20-30 plus minute walk a few hours afterwards can serve as a bit of damage control.

2.) Do NOT Fast in Preparation for a Big Meal or Holiday Feast

Fasting in preparation for a big meal will not only lead to overeating, but worse: overeating foods that are
extremely high in sugar, fat, or both! Your body is a survival mechanism. If it hasn’t had food in a while it anticipates a famine state. This means that the next time that you eat your body will use as much of the incoming food as possible to store as body fat (survival energy) in anticipation that it won’t see food again for another long period of time. Do yourself and your body a favor by eating every two to four hours as you normally should to prevent yourself from becoming a ravenous, fat-storing beast!

3.) Do NOT Gorge Yourself

Eat until the point of satisfaction, not discomfort. Remember this: binge eating is not the habit of lean individuals. It is imperative to understand that that holiday meals are not a ticket to eat as much as you can in as little time as possible. However, listen to your body and make sure to enjoy the foods you are craving in moderation and only eat when you are hungry. Ask yourself: Is this the last time in my life that this particular dish will ever be available? The answer is probably not. You don’t have to eat the entire peach cobbler in one night. I bet if you ask real nice, your mom will make another one for you later in the year. Indulge in moderation.

4.) Eat a High-Fiber, Protein-Rich Meal An Hour Before a Holiday Event

A meal high in fiber and protein before a big holiday meal will help prevent overeating by making you feel more
full which in turn means less calories consumed during the ensuing feast. My favorite strategy is to drink a protein shake (like the prograde lean) with a added fiber and healthy fats (e.g. 2-4 Tbsp. flax meal) and 1 liter of water before such a meal to help keep me nice and full upon arrival.

5.) Eat Leans Proteins and Fruits and Vegetables FIRST

There are some healthy options in a typical holiday dinner. Make sure to load up on healthier food choices first and try to eat as much lean meat, fish, and fruits and veggies as possible at the start of each dinner. This will leave less room for the unhealthier, higher calorie treats. At least this way you know your body is getting in some good nutrition and you are not putting yourself at excessive risk for sickness and/or other health concerns.

6.) Drink, Drink, Drink Water!

Water competes for space in your stomach and truly helps decrease appetite. For every plate you eat, try to drink at least 1-2 glasses of water. After that second plate, when you have 1 full liter of water in your stomach, I bet you might just throw in the towel!

7.) Do NOT Eat Again Until Hungry Following a Large Meal

Now I know I already told you to eat every 2-4 hours, but there is one exception to this. If you eat a huge meal, it
is important not to eat again until you are hungry and/or no longer full. If your body is not used to eating such a big meal, then it will take a much longer time to digest all that food and the worst thing you can do is put more food into an already full stomach, unless you goal is to do the stop, drop, and roll drill. Only when you are hungry again should you resume your normal eating
plan following a big meal.

8.) Immediately Resume Your Normal Eating Schedule at the Next Meal

What’s done is done. Now it is time to get back to your regular eating plan. Remember weekly caloric intake is far
more important than daily caloric intake. For example, let’s say that you need 3,000 calories per day to maintain your current body weight. Well, all that you need to do is make sure the average daily caloric intake each week is 3,000
calories per day. This means that you can fluctuate your daily caloric intake and yield the same results as if you ate that same amount each day. So if you have one day of big eating where you eat 9,000 calories (just an example, not a
recommendation), but you only eat 2,000 calories per day the rest of the week, you will still end up at the same caloric balance. Again, I am not recommending that you eat in such an extreme manner, rather I am suggesting that you do not
have to obsess about being perfect. Enjoy some indulging in moderation at your various holiday festivities knowing that the week in review trumps a day in review, even when you are particularly naughty on any given day.

9.) Never Eat Junk Food for Breakfast or Before Bed

Eating a highly refined carbohydrate meal first thing in the morning will make your blood sugar levels go crazy for
the rest of the day resulting in greater junk food cravings and uncontrollable hunger. On the other hand, eating a big meal before bed will result in a bunch of unused energy that will be stored as body fat and you very well may have trouble sleeping with all of that extra food volume in your stomach!

10.) Control your Portions

Try to eat only half of all the servings of unhealthy food that you choose. Half of the portions equal half the
calories!

11.) Avoid Empty Liquid Calories and Alcohol

One can easily consume over 1,000 calories per day from liquid calories alone. This means that in one week, you
will gain 2 lbs of body fat from just fluids! Opt for regular solid food calories versus empty liquid calories (e.g. juices and soft drinks), for at least the food will fill you up and provide some nutrition where as liquid calories, particularly alcohol, have no such effect. Rather, sugary and/or alcoholic drinks tend to make you hungrier in general and often hungrier for
junk food in particular. Furthermore, your body cannot burn fat until the alcohol is processed out of your body. Thus over-consumption of alcohol can prevent the fat burning process from resuming until several days later and/or even cause unwanted fat gain and thus set you back as little as a few days to as long as a full week!

12.) Use Lower Calorie/Carbohydrate Substitutes Whenever Possible

Instead of using sugar, opt for zero calorie alternatives like splenda or stevia. They can deliver a similar taste
without all of the extra sugar and calories. Even try replacing yeast with protein powder when you bake. The extra protein and reduced carbohydrates will result in a slimmer you while still providing some great tasting treats! Your
goal should be to find the minimal amount of calories that can provide the same great taste that makes the holiday treats enjoyable rather than simply overdoing it because you can!

13.) Avoid Eating Meals that are High in Both Fat and Carbohydrates

The absolute worst thing that you can do is to eat a meal that is high in both fat and carbs. The high amount of
carbs will lead to a rapid increase in blood sugar levels and thus large increases in the potent fat-storing hormone Insulin. The high amount of fat will lead to a large increase in free fatty acids in your bloodstream. Since Insulin is already present in large amounts, in addition to there being a large amount of free fatty acids now available in your blood, the stage is set for
all those free fatty acids to be gobbled up and stored by your fat cells. This is the equivalent of becoming the next Goodyear blimp, so it is imperative to use caution at your holiday meals when it comes to combining fat and carbs .
In general, it is best to choose one over the other. But since most people crave carbs at their free meals, it is essential to keep the fat low at this meal. Want pasta? Instead of alfredo sauce, opt for marinara sauce with whole
grain pasta. Want pizza? Make your own pizza with whole grain crust and fat-free cheese. Want mashed potatoes? Well then be sure to skip the gravy and go easy on the butter. These small changes can literally save you hundreds, even thousands of calories, and more importantly will prevent your holiday feasts from creating the optimal fat-storing environment that will set you back from achieving your health and fitness goals.

Sarai D. Jones

Negative Body Image In Women- Our Final Steps

 

Have you been looking at things with a more critical eye?

It’s hard to let go of the dream isn’t it?

Even when that dream holds us down or makes us feel bad.

We strive and strive and can never seem to look like that girl in the magazine but when we are told it is all an illusion we just can’t get our brains to believe it.

Keep working on it. This doesn’t happen overnight.

Today let’s go over our last two steps to help us achieve a better image of ourselves.

Step 4

Just the facts

Describe yourself to yourself but not in the emotional self-hating way we have ingrained in us.

Instead of I have mousy brown hair state the actual facts: I have light brown hair.

Instead of I have these ugly wrinkles around my eyes say what they really are: I have 3 lines around my eyes that are about ½” long.

If you talk about your looks without the extra emotional loading, it leads to greater self acceptance.

Step 5

Dress the part

Steal a secret from the pro’s, wear only what is flattering to you, what plays up the good parts from your “likeable” list and makes you feel good about the way you look.

Don’t wear things just because they are hot right now. If it pinches, bulges or does any otherwise less than flattering things to your body, leave it on the rack.

One of the reasons the stars always look so good is because they only wear what makes the best of their assets.

Every time you see them all you notice is how great their arms are, or their legs, or how great of a smile they have.

By diverting attention away from the negative you only see the positive.

It works like a charm for them. Give it a try.

I have taken several posts to discuss this issue because I’m really passionate about it.

Every day I speak with women who spend the first 20 minutes of our meetings telling me every negative thing about themselves in very unkind detail and I wonder would they ever talk to a friend that way?

Look outside your own mirror.

How you see yourself and how others see you when they look at you are usually miles apart.

Think of your best friend. What is one thing she is constantly complaining about in regards to her looks? Do you see it the same way? Do you think she is making a big deal over nothing?

Now look at yourself. Are you doing it too?

Your negative body image probably doesn’t reflect what other people see.

Keep improving

No I’m not talking about "fixing" things, I’m talking about taking actions in your life everyday that make you feel proud of who you are.

Get involved in a regular workout routine like Booty Boot Camp, change just one thing about your diet over the next 30 days, take the time to value your body as much as your mind. It is not a prisoner on this journey of life; it is the only vessel you have to get you through this thing called life. Treat it well.

Soon we are going to talk about the changes you are going to make in the next 30 days.

Yep YOU!

Stay tuned

Sarai Jones

Negative Body Image In Women PT 3

 

So you’ve had several days to practice your likeable list.

How’s it going?

I know I had to force myself to look myself in the eye while doing it, but it’s gotten easier these last few days.

Today let’s tackle two more steps

Step 2

Don’t believe everything you see

The next time the Victoria Secret catalog comes in the mail or you are watching the latest music video on Mtv tear what you see apart!

I know that seems catty but think about it…..

Is the models face liberally coated with makeup? Does her hair look perfectly mussed by a team of 20? Has she been air brushed? Or do you see lots of women walking around with skin that incredibly smooth?

This is not to be bitter and tear down other women; this is opening your eyes to the truth so that you can stop programming your brain to think you have to look like these images of women who don’t even look like that themselves!

I recently read an interview with Ayisha Taylor, a model/actress,comedian, where she talked about that at 6 feet tall and a size 6 she was told she was “too fat” so her hips were airbrushed in the final photos of a particular photo shoot to look more like a boys hips.

Unbelievable!

Do you see why it is critical that you stop programming your brain to compete with what you see in the media? It is truly impossible.

Step 3

Look at the positive

The grass is not always greener on the other side. You may dislike your small chest but your large chested friends may envy that you can wear a spaghetti strap top without it looking like you are showing all your goods to the world.

Find the positive in who you are and realize that in every weakness there is a strength.

I know many of you are connecting with what I am talking about.

I’d love to see a comment posted on the blog

Stay positive!

Sarai Jones