Project YOU (take it seriously!)

Every once in a while a subject comes up again and again in a short period of time. I take that as a sign I need to blog about it!

I want you to think of an important project that you are in charge of, for a lot of you it will be a work project, maybe a school project or even a project around your home.

Now this project is important to you for various reasons: It reflects strongly on your job performance, your final grades or it’s big financial investment. You really want/need the outcome to happen as expected. I mean this is a big deal. This one project for work could land your company a HUGE account (which might mean a raise for you). This one project could affect your final GPA and your eligibility for some scholarships. In the case of your home perhaps this project being completed properly is key to the structural integrity of your home, the re-sale value (whats that?) or maybe you’re hosting a wedding and your home needs to be ready ON TIME.

Alright so we have this super important project and it has to be right. What’s the game plan? Do you assess it in detail? Get the help you’ll need? List the supplies you’ll need and when you’ll purchase them? Set a deadline and make sure you stick to it? Nope. You just wake up each day with a general awareness of what needs to be done, a vague outline of how you’ll complete the project and figure each day you’ll work it the best way you can.

Ummm, what do you think the outcome will be? I’m sure there’s always the odd chance that you are one lucky mo-fo and it’ll all go off without a hitch but in about 99% of the cases the project will end up in either total failure or at best less than satisfactory results.

Now I know you’re thinking “But I would NEVER do that! I mean come on, how silly is that? Who would do that?!”

But then we take another important project, the project of our own health, fitness and fat-loss and we do exactly that; fly by the seat of our pants with only a vague outline of what we should be doing. We set deadlines and then endlessly push them back because of one thing or another. We wake up each day saying “I’ll make good choices” but have no concrete clue about what choices we should be making. We make and accept excuses for why something didn’t happen or why we couldn’t possibly do this or that (things we would never do for a work or school project). And then at or around the time that we want “Project YOU” to be complete, we panic. “How come I’m not where I’m supposed to be?!!!!!”

So I want you to start thinking of your fat-loss, toning and weight-loss goals as a project. It’s important.

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Treat it like one of the most important projects on your agenda. Each week assess: what will you eat? When will you shop for it? When will you prep it? How will you manage next Tuesday when you have back-to-back catered meetings or are traveling? So-and-so’s graduation party is next week, what will you eat and when will you get your workout in? Mark your deadline and regularly assess your progress and make sure you are on track. Do what you need to stay on track.

Yes, I know you want to live your “normal” life too but there are two things I believe:

1. You can live your “normal” life once you get to your goal. It’s tougher to lose 20lbs than it is to maintain a 20lb loss so put in the work, focus on your project of losing 20lbs then you can live your “normal” life.

2. You probably need to change your “normal”. I’m not saying no alcohol, no pizza, no dessert but if your normal is half a pizza, cocktails nightly and jumbo sized desserts then don’t believe the hype that you can still live like THAT and change your body too.

Project YOU is important. Treat it like it is and reap the rewards of your focus and dedication.

P.S. We have a few exciting new things at the BBC studio: our new spring loaded cushioned floors, our Power yoga class (think of this as the athletes yoga, no chanting and mediating here, you will work and burn major calories!) and we are now the exclusive home of EMC fitness Dance, Sweat, Burn

 

I Dare You

I just got back from a fantastic family trip to the Grand Canyon. The hiking there is so beautiful.

Here is a picture at one of our rest points.

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Now I wouldn’t say I’m afraid of heights in the strictest sense, but if given the choice I’d rather not hang out too close to cliffs, so getting past that and just enjoying the challenge of the hikes, the company I had and the beautiful scenery took a couple of deep breaths and focus (to start anyway, once I got going my fears were the furthest thing from my mind).

As I was thinking about all that I would have missed had I let my fears get the better of me I realized that today of all days would be the best day to write about it because today is: National Dare Day (you didn’t know?!)

Usually the word “Dare” makes us think of being challenged to eat worms, kiss a stranger, moon somebody or spontaneously yell out something silly in a crowd; that kind of thing. But today I want to dare you to do something that’ll help make you healthier, more fit or more focused.

Take your pick. I DARE YOU TO:

– Not a runner? I dare you to go run a mile right now and see how fast you can get it done (run/walk is fine just do it!)

– Post your before picture on facebook and announce to your fb community that you are starting your fitness journey now! (tag me if you do!)

– Try a new workout: Boot Camp, Dance Cardio (even if you don’t have rhythm!) and Power Yoga are all good options if you’ve never done them.  We offer all at BBC and you can try one or all of them as my guest. Call me and I’ll put you on the guest list(s) 916-57-BOOTY.

– Sign-up for Tough Mudder! You can be on the BBC team. Sunday September 23 (email me if you’re interested)

– Sign-up for an event like a run or cycle event and pick a level higher than your norm or a level that scares you to think about (for instance, always run a 5k? Register and run the 10K!)

– Strip down to your undies, stare at yourself in the mirror and out loud say all the things that you like about your body without saying one single negative thing, meaning you can’t say I have great ___except…. Doesn’t  matter how small the likes are: I like my wrists, my collar bones are quite lovely, I’ve got fantastic fingernails! You’re laughing but some of you have been verbally abusing yourselves for so long you may have to start with those fingernails….

– Avoid for one full weekend (Friday, Saturday, Sunday) one thing that you SWEAR you’d shrivel up and die without eating/drinking.

– Eat something that’s considered healthy you’ve never tried ’cause it looks or sounds “weird”

But most of all I DARE YOU TO:

– Actually achieve the goals you’re always talking about achieving.

– I dare you to put the work in

– Make the sacrifices

– Feel the burn

– Drip the sweat

– I dare you to stop making:  exceptions, justifications and excuses for why you can’t possibly do ___ or give up___ or make time for ____.

I DOUBLE DARE YOU TO: FINALLY SUCCEED!

Happy Dare Day!

 

Ditch the Plateau! (spring cleaning time)

A plateau is when you feel like you’re doing everything right but you’re not seeing the changes you expect to see on the scale or in your clothes. Basically you’re not progressing.

Sometimes it really is a matter of your body holding on to those last few pounds and you needing to pull out some tricks to get your body to let go of them. However in my experience working with lots and lots (hundreds!) of women I find that really there are just some things you need to buckle down on and clean up (usually in the diet) to get back on track and get over this “plateau”.

So since it’s now officially spring let’s do some spring cleaning of your weight-loss habits.

These are the top 3 areas that most of us aren’t really being as diligent as we can: [Read more…]

A Pre-Schooler Taught Me This…..

Yesterday I talked about going guilt-free when it comes to food and having an open relationship with it. I gave you some things to ask yourself and I hope it helps you. But I left feeling like I was unclear…like I didn’t really state the facts as I see them so here it is:

You have to take responsibility for your actions and your decisions. Eat the cheeseburger and fries or not. Say yes to dessert or No… it is your choice. [Read more…]

Guilt Free Dieting

I hope this post-Superbowl Monday finds everyone content with their eating decisions from yesterday.

I don’t mean that you should have only ate healthy things.  Rather I hope you are content with the fact that you made conscious decisions of what you were going to eat, enjoyed it, and feel no guilt about it today.

I think we “dieting” women spend far too much time feeling bad about what we’ve eaten. Food becomes “good or bad” and let’s face it; except for those that are trying to get on stage and compete in a figure contest, the rest of us healthy minded but “real” women are going to eat those “bad” foods sometimes. What I often hear the next day is “oh, I was so”bad” I ate…..” . Well it hit me in the last few months that that mindset, the “I’m so bad” mindset, is way unhealthier than the food. I mean who wants to live in a constant state of guilt?

So here are 5 quick questions to ask yourself before you indulge in treats. I know it sounds like a lot but once it becomes your habit it takes about 10 seconds to think it through:

The first one can eliminate the need for the next four: [Read more…]

Something you need to know (personal)

This may not sit well with you, but it’s something that you need to know, and so I’m just going to come out and say it.

See, the way I see it they’re insulting your intelligence.

Who’s “they”?

THEY are the talking heads you see on TV and hear on the radio. And I’m convinced they’re trying to make you fatter.

Every year at about this time all you see, hear and read about are people making the big three New Year resolutions – more money, quit smoking, and to lose weight.

Now, I don’t know the success rate of the first two, but as a fitness expert and someone who has helped dozens and dozens of folks lose weight and get in better shape, I can tell you (and statistics prove) that most people who resolve to lose weight in the new year are doomed. [Read more…]

One Reason You’re Still Fat

There is one thing that time after time knocks literally HUNDREDS of women off their game when it comes to fitness and weight loss. I see it every single day. I hear it from the mouths of struggling women that come into my Sacramento boot camp; I hear it in the stories of how things were. And I bet you’ll never guess what it is.
Go ahead, guess…………
Let see, you probably listed things like: Schedule, soreness, lack of a clear goal, eating habits, unsupportive family and friends……yup all good and things that need to be addressed but it’s not the one I’m talking about today. You see this one is really sneaky. This one seems totally ridiculous when you first hear it. This one should spark the exact opposite result it often does and still, time after time it leaves “failure” and frustration in its wake. I’m just about positive it’s hit you a time or two. I know I’ve succumbed to it more times than I care to mention.
What is it? [Read more…]

You Say You’re Ready. But Are You REALLY Ready? (final steps to Rockin it)

Looks like yesterday’s post touched a nerve with a lot of you. It seems having to wear whatever can make you look somewhat presentable has been an ongoing problem for many. Trust me, I’ve know the feeling well at times.

But I have to ask you, are you really tired of it yet? I mean so tired of it that it makes you wanna scream, cry and go for a run all at once? I ask cause I’ve know that feeling too. Standing in my closet for the umpteenth time in a week staring at all the clothes that absolutely do not fit or if I can get them on, clothes I wouldn’t be caught dead wearing in public cause of the squuuuzzeeeeeeee and bulge effect going on. Ughhh……. It’s so frustrating. I have literally cried in my closet………and then gone out and ate a tub of ice cream, a small tub, but still. [Read more…]

When’s The Last Time You Had A Choice? (Rock the LBD pt 2)

So why did I pick an LBD as the focus for this next challenge? I know some of you prefer color and some of you even prefer pants or skirts. I get it. But it’s not just about the little black dress, it’s about the way you feel about your body that gives you the confidence to wear a LBD if that’s what you choose.

Did you catch those last few words……”what you choose”.  Choice. When was the last time you actually had a choice in what to wear? I mean I know you have a choice in the general sense of the word; you pick your pants, your shirts, your shoes…..but do you pick those items cause you LOVE them? Feel great in them? Look in the mirror and smile when you’re in them? Or, are you like a lot of women who pick what they want based on what they would like to hide? What doesn’t show the bulge here and the ripple there? What hides the size of your _____ (butt, arms, legs, hips, etc.)?

Getting to choose based on color, style, occasion……..that my friends in a very good feeling. And I want YOU to feel it. That’s the real focus and motivation behind the LBD Project that I’m going to lay out for you this Monday. You feeling good, looking good, losing body fat, attacking your new years resolution before January, and having a choice in what you wear through the holiday season and for your everyday life thereafter.

Alright so with that said here are steps 2 and 3 of ‘5 Steps To Rock Your Little Black Dress’

Step 2: Set A Deadline –You have your goal dress (see step one) but when do you want to get there? Putting a date on a goal gives it real meaning. Something like “I will fit into and wear my LBD for the LBD Project after-party on Friday January 6th.

Step 3: Make a plan, Set a schedule –You’ll need to decide what you are going to do for exercise and how you are going to eat for the duration of your “project”? Once you’ve decided on the best methods for you, schedule it out.  Look, we all get busy, overwhelmed, tired, etc. and if you leave it up in the air as to when you are going to actually do the things you need to do to reach your goal and reach it on time they won’t get done and if they do, they won’t happen consistently. So pull out your planner (E or paper) and actually schedule in the days and times you will do the following:

  • Strength train
  • Interval cardio (about 20 minutes ea session)
  • Plan meals for the week
  • Prep meals for the week

BTW- If that seems overwhelming don’t panic. I’ve got a plan mapped out for the LBD Project that covers all of that. All you have to do is show up to the workouts to cover the exercise portion and for the nutrition, simply print the menus or order your food online (more about that very soon).

Alright, steps 1-3 take the most time so go ahead and get caught up. Tomorrow I’ll tell you the final steps and I might even up the doors on the LBD a little early for a handful of action takers (did I mention there’s a party after?)

P.S. I still want to see your LBD pics on my fanpage. Post them on the wall here: http://www.facebook.com/sacramento.bootcamp

 

A picture of us at our last BBC party

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5 Steps To Rockin Your Little Black Dress

It’s here! The season of tempting baked goods, limited-time-only coffee house drinks, cold weather that makes you wand stay bundled up, short days and the openly accepted excuse to drop off of all your hard work and progress (or to delay the start of making some until January) –The Holidays.

I’ve got a question for you and I’m betting I know the answer: [Read more…]