Why Aren’t You Motivated?

 

A good dose of motivation can change your life almost overnight.

The best part of my job is seeing my female clients achieve amazing results. Whether they drop a
few sizes, lose the baby weight, get off their blood pressure meds, or shrink their waist the excitement is always contagious.

There really isn’t a clear way to describe the euphoria that settles in once you’ve realized your
fitness goal. You have to experience it.

Though each successful client is unique with different goals one element unites them.

They are all highly motivated.

You see, I am in a unique position. I know how to get you (or anyone else who starts with my Booty Bootcamp) into great shape. I can coach you through a 50 pound weight loss. I can guide you to a healthier body. I can even train you into a toned athlete.

But there is one catch.

You’ll need to be motivated.

See, saying that you want to get into great shape isn’t enough. You need motivation-and that’s just half of the equation. The other part (and the most important) is ACTION.

Nothing happens until you take action.

You can want it, think about it, mull it over, ponder it, plan it, and then re-plan it. But nothing happens until you take action.

While I may not know your story-it’s probably safe to assume that you are dissatisfied with your body and know that you can improve your fitness level. You want to look better, to have more energy, to experience fewer aches and pains, and to enjoy sweet satisfaction as you achieve your goals once and for all.

I know that all of my successful clients were once in your shoes. They wanted to change their bodies. They felt urgency. And then they did what most fail to do. They took action and contacted me.

But there is more to it than that. They then committed to a program, put in the exercise,stuck to their diet and met their goals. There’s nothing more gratifying than getting back into those skinny jeans that now sit in the back of your closet.

Those that take massive action get massive rewards. And those that simply talk about losing weight will continue to put weight on, pound after pound. I hate to put that way, but it’s the truth.

So what do you want?

To drop 20 pounds

To feel younger

To look better in your birthday suit

How bad do you want it? How much motivation do you have? Enough to take MASSIVE ACTION?

The rewards are great IF you do.

I am always here to help

Sarai Jones

Flexible Spending = Massage

 

A massage is always a good idea. Any excuse will do.

One of my boot campers forwarded this message to me about using you flexible spending dollars for massage therapy. It sounds like a perfect way to put those use it or lose it dollars to work.

Now this is from a specific massage chain but the rules apply no matter where you choose to get our rub down.

check it out and enjoy!

Sarai Jones

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The end of summer always signals a switch in schedules. It seems as if things suddenly go from slow-and-lazy summer to full-speed-ahead fall. As your me-time gets more scarce, it’s more important than ever to pay attention to your health. That includes eating right, exercising, getting plenty of sleep and getting regular massages to help keep your stress at a healthy level.
While we can’t help cross many of the tasks off your to-do list, we do have good news. This is likely the time of year when your flexible spending account (FSA) is soon approaching the closing date. If you still have money to spend, don’t forget that massage therapy is an eligible expense. And since FSAs have a "use it or lose it" policy, you have a great reason to move massage a priority in your schedule.

While the health and wellness benefits of regular massage are many, not all massages qualify for your pre-tax FSA dollars. Based on federal tax code, a qualified expense "must be to alleviate or prevent a physical or mental defect or illness." Massage is a frequently endorsed component in the treatment and prevention of a number of conditions. For starters, by lowering your heart rate and blood pressure, relaxing muscles and increasing endorphins, massage can aid in releasing stress, which is a leading contributor to a number of health conditions. It also can help naturally boost your immune system leading to fewer illnesses.

The news about massage is also good for migraine sufferers because massage has been shown to decrease headache frequency and reduce sleep disturbances, as well as reduce the chances of stress-induced headaches.

Additionally, recent research shows that massage therapy can help those who have insomnia, chronic pain, depression and anxiety, arthritis, carpal tunnel syndrome and fibromyalgia, and is beneficial for people recovering from surgery.

Ready to use up your FSA dollars on a massage? Here’s what you need to do:

  1. Talk to your medical practitioner (any healthcare provider who can write a prescription). A prescription for massage is required for your therapy to count as a qualified medical expense.
  2. Double-check the prescription. It should contain three pieces of information: Length of treatment, duration, reason for prescribing massage therapy.
  3. Schedule an appointment at Massage Envy. Although you will not have to bring your prescription to the clinic for your appointment, be sure to hang on to it.
  4. Keep all receipts for your records. Even though an expense is approved, you could still get audited by the Internal Revenue Service. To avoid problems, keep your written prescription and your FSA debit or credit card statement or other type of receipt that shows what you spent on the massage therapy.

If you don’t have an FSA, ask your Human Resources contact about your options and consider signing up for this benefit during your company’s next open-enrollment period.

When Only 30lbs In 30 Days Will Do

 

Ok, I’ll admit, all women are a little preoccupied with their weight. But I recently met with someone about my personal training services that I would say fell into the category of obsessed with weight loss. Not just any weight loss, FAST weight loss.

She listed to me every fad diet and gimmick under the sun that she had tried to lose weight including some
pretty dangerous prescription diet drugs.

This person bluntly told me that the whole 1-2lbs a week thing didn’t cut it for her. She was only interested in super fast weight loss.
She wanted to see 4-5lbs a week come off every single week. That was the only way she was going to stay interested.

Of course I told her about the difference in scale weight and body fat and how slower safe weight loss would result in long term results that she could maintain for life.

Not interested.

I told her that in just 3 months she could get to her goal and learn the habits along the way that would keep her there.

Not sexy enough.

I told her that if she did not decide to finally do things the right way 90 days would roll around and she would be right where she was now.

Yeah, ok, but can I lose 30 lbs in about 4 weeks with you?

I left that appointment shaking my head, wondering why someone would be so stuck on doing things in a way that she had proven to herself time and time again would not work.

Have you ever heard of self-sabotage?

One way women often do this when it comes to fitness and fat loss is by setting unrealistic expectations of what they can do or what they should expect.

For example: Trying to lose 30lbs in 30 days, trying to exercise 7 days a week from day one. Expecting to be able to keep up with other women who have been exercising for months or years. Feeling like if they haven’t eaten perfectly all day the day is a total loss.

If you read my blog post from a few days ago where I talked about “trying” to do something, you now realize that “trying” is nothing more than giving yourself a way out.

Well the same is true of unrealistic expectations.

Trying to be perfect and then failing because you are not is a vicious cycle you will be bound to repeat for your entire life.

When you set the bar so impossibly high for yourself that you can’t help but fail, you are doing nothing more than giving yourself a way out.

I know I ask this a lot but……aren’t you tired of that yet?

If you want a step-by-step nutrition program and a tough, enjoyable, effective fitness plan that will get you to your goal as quickly and safely as possible, come talk to me.

http://www.getfitwithsarai.com/boot-camps-for-women.html

Sarai Jones

The Power Of Your Convictions

 

“I’m going to try and eat a good breakfast everyday”

“I’m going to try and work out 3 days this week”

“I’m going to try and get to bed by 9 pm every week night”

Well are you or aren’t you?

Either you are going to plan and prepare what you will eat for breakfast all week so that you can eat a healthy breakfast or you are just going to wing it and expect some miracle to happen where you have a perfect breakfast waiting for you each morning.

Either you are going to schedule your 3 workouts each week like any other appointment and stick to them (joining a boot camp is a great way to hold yourself accountable to this www.getfitwithsarai.com), or you are going to hope that the stars and moon will suddenly align at 3 different times in your week and you will find yourself sitting around with nothing to do for an hour.

Are you getting my point?

Trying” to do something is nothing more than giving yourself a way out of really committing to something.

And when it comes to fat loss and fitness all it does is leave you stuck at square one, frustrated and feeling like your whole life revolves around losing weight.

Aren’t you tired of that yet?

Once you decide that something MUST get done and you commit to doing it, you’ll be amazed at the power of your conviction.

Are you ready for a proven system that will take you from trying to doing?

http://www.getfitwithsarai.com/boot-camps-for-women.html

http://www.getfitwithsarai.com/group-fitness-training-programs.html

Sarai Jones

Follow My Lead

 

Alright, this is going to sound strange, but hear me out…

A few months ago I signed up on a website called, www.Twitter.com (some of you may remember).

Over the last few weeks especially, many of you have been asking me for a sample meal plan or for my food log. So to make things easier and accessible to all, I have decided that a great way to use this nifty little site is to post what I am eating all day everyday.

I will be posting all of my meals, snacks, and nutrition tips over the course of the day so you’ll see exactly what I eat each day to get and stay lean.

I know, websites like this can seem a little funny(or “young”)at first, but I’m using it to help YOU out and I think once you start using it too, you’ll really like it.

So I’m committing to you that I’m going to post all of my meals each day, showing you how to eat fast, nutritious foods even when you are traveling or are really busy.

I’m holding myself accountable to you. By doing this, I’m going to be more focused on eating healthier than ever because I don’t want to have to report to YOU that I’m cheating on my diet.
(And if I do cheat, feel free to call me on it & tell me to get back on track!)

For many people, being ACCOUNTABLE to others is their #1 way to stay motivated and on-track with their diet and exercise program.

So head over to this site and “follow” BootybootCamp to see what I’m eating at every meal.
http://www.Twitter.com/bootybootcamp

You’ll also get little insider nutrition tips all day long.

By the way, you should follow my lead and start posting your daily diet and exercise
somewhere for someone who is holding you accountable.
I would love to have you posting on this free twitter site with me or you can post here on my blog.

Accountability is one of the major MOTIVATION SECRETS to success.
Check me out here:www.Twitter.com/bootybootcamp

Stay in touch!

Sarai Jones

Negative Body Image In Women- Our Final Steps

 

Have you been looking at things with a more critical eye?

It’s hard to let go of the dream isn’t it?

Even when that dream holds us down or makes us feel bad.

We strive and strive and can never seem to look like that girl in the magazine but when we are told it is all an illusion we just can’t get our brains to believe it.

Keep working on it. This doesn’t happen overnight.

Today let’s go over our last two steps to help us achieve a better image of ourselves.

Step 4

Just the facts

Describe yourself to yourself but not in the emotional self-hating way we have ingrained in us.

Instead of I have mousy brown hair state the actual facts: I have light brown hair.

Instead of I have these ugly wrinkles around my eyes say what they really are: I have 3 lines around my eyes that are about ½” long.

If you talk about your looks without the extra emotional loading, it leads to greater self acceptance.

Step 5

Dress the part

Steal a secret from the pro’s, wear only what is flattering to you, what plays up the good parts from your “likeable” list and makes you feel good about the way you look.

Don’t wear things just because they are hot right now. If it pinches, bulges or does any otherwise less than flattering things to your body, leave it on the rack.

One of the reasons the stars always look so good is because they only wear what makes the best of their assets.

Every time you see them all you notice is how great their arms are, or their legs, or how great of a smile they have.

By diverting attention away from the negative you only see the positive.

It works like a charm for them. Give it a try.

I have taken several posts to discuss this issue because I’m really passionate about it.

Every day I speak with women who spend the first 20 minutes of our meetings telling me every negative thing about themselves in very unkind detail and I wonder would they ever talk to a friend that way?

Look outside your own mirror.

How you see yourself and how others see you when they look at you are usually miles apart.

Think of your best friend. What is one thing she is constantly complaining about in regards to her looks? Do you see it the same way? Do you think she is making a big deal over nothing?

Now look at yourself. Are you doing it too?

Your negative body image probably doesn’t reflect what other people see.

Keep improving

No I’m not talking about "fixing" things, I’m talking about taking actions in your life everyday that make you feel proud of who you are.

Get involved in a regular workout routine like Booty Boot Camp, change just one thing about your diet over the next 30 days, take the time to value your body as much as your mind. It is not a prisoner on this journey of life; it is the only vessel you have to get you through this thing called life. Treat it well.

Soon we are going to talk about the changes you are going to make in the next 30 days.

Yep YOU!

Stay tuned

Sarai Jones

Negative Body Image In Women PT 3

 

So you’ve had several days to practice your likeable list.

How’s it going?

I know I had to force myself to look myself in the eye while doing it, but it’s gotten easier these last few days.

Today let’s tackle two more steps

Step 2

Don’t believe everything you see

The next time the Victoria Secret catalog comes in the mail or you are watching the latest music video on Mtv tear what you see apart!

I know that seems catty but think about it…..

Is the models face liberally coated with makeup? Does her hair look perfectly mussed by a team of 20? Has she been air brushed? Or do you see lots of women walking around with skin that incredibly smooth?

This is not to be bitter and tear down other women; this is opening your eyes to the truth so that you can stop programming your brain to think you have to look like these images of women who don’t even look like that themselves!

I recently read an interview with Ayisha Taylor, a model/actress,comedian, where she talked about that at 6 feet tall and a size 6 she was told she was “too fat” so her hips were airbrushed in the final photos of a particular photo shoot to look more like a boys hips.

Unbelievable!

Do you see why it is critical that you stop programming your brain to compete with what you see in the media? It is truly impossible.

Step 3

Look at the positive

The grass is not always greener on the other side. You may dislike your small chest but your large chested friends may envy that you can wear a spaghetti strap top without it looking like you are showing all your goods to the world.

Find the positive in who you are and realize that in every weakness there is a strength.

I know many of you are connecting with what I am talking about.

I’d love to see a comment posted on the blog

Stay positive!

Sarai Jones

Negative Body Image In Women PT 2

 

Negative Body Image in Women, we talked yesterday about it.

Now let’s take the first step to improve it.

Well actually before I get to the first step let me ask you…..

How committed are you to actually making a change in the way you see yourself?

See, you can read this information and think it sounds good and all.

But sitting there nodding your head in agreement is not going to make your life any better.

Action is the magic word.

As silly as you may feel doing some of these steps we are going to talk about over the next several days follow through with them and you will start to move closer to a more accurate image of yourself.

OK, so you are committed and ready to go?

Step 1

Make a “likeable” list of things about yourself.

What are the things about you that people often compliment you on?

Do people often notice your smile?

Your eyes?

Your shoulders?

Your laugh?

Write those things down first then start to add to it.

Go on, you know there are things that you like about yourself that you would never admit to anyone.

Write those down too.

No, it doesn’t mean you are conceited or self-centered. It just means that you understand that despite not being perfect you are OK (I know that sounds dreadfully corny but work with me here) :-).

Read this “likable” list daily

Twice daily if you really want to drill it into to your brain that a change is coming.

And to make it even more effective, read it to yourself in the mirror.

Lock the door if you have too but give it a try.

It’s amazing how embarrassed you can get talking to yourself in the mirror

But it works!

Do this step today.

I’ll give you the weekend to practice it.

We’ll talk about step 2 in a few days.

You can change if you want too.

We’re here to help!

Post a comment and tell us how this feels for you. We’d love to hear it.

Sarai Jones